Still moving ahead with things, and life seems to be keeping up with me. Im now living 90% full time as a woman. The other 10 percent is when im with some of my family and partially while at work.. Im working on getting my legal documents updated and getting business in order with family prior to making any legal changes. Im finding it a very easy transition, so far. Im now easily frustrated with people confusing my gender. It was understandable before, but now while at work it still remains a difficult mental shift for those around me. It will be nice to make my news official and be able to correct others. Until I can really have a legal justification, I cant claim my new name or gender at work, but I do have alot of people using my female pronouns when referring to me.
Its been a wonderful experience with my now....boyfriend, he's been a doll at giving me the full treatment of being a woman. He doesn't even flinch at my physical shortcomings, and rains compliments on me. I blush alot when im with him. I realized that Im so much at ease that I don't even worry about my trans issues when im with him. It all just feels really normal, and our time out in public, has also been very normal. We've had zero weird comments or treatment. Ive been pleasantly surprised and comforted by that.
I think another point worth mentioning is how natural this transistion has been for me. There hasn't been any fireworks or flashing lights with my role. Its been very simple and calm. I used to think my new life would be this outrageous experience, and filled with moments of shock and awe. Its nice to just quietly assume my role and kinda sneek under the radar. Old situations with legal situations will always be akward. But people who dont know me, dont even second guess it (as far as I am aware).
Keeping my chin up , a smile on my face, and having lots of heart warming sighs as I walk into this new life.
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